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Old 04-26-2010, 03:07 AM
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Originally Posted by faeriesrreal View Post
My thing is I do not like females. Any and all women/girls I have ever worked with, hung with, met or what have you have exhibited the same backstabby, catty, judgemental, moody, opinionated, steam-roller behaviors. Because of this I DO NOT want to have a relationship with another woman. .
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This is a very strong statement that you made about women. You may have written this when you were really angry and feeling very defensive; I don't know, but I agree that working on this with a therapist or a support group would probably be a life enhancing process for you. This attitude about women in general has to affect your ability to function!

At the same time, I also don't think it's neccessary for you to develop a relationship with your husband's lover.
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