One thing guys-having a 3-some does not mean that you have to have sex with both of the other people.
Maca/GG and I have had a 3-some, and I've had 3-somes with my exboyfriend and his friend.
In both cases the guys "did it for my benefit".
BUT they didn't have sex with one another
participate in any touchy/feely with one another.
They were focusing their combined attention on me.
So it kind of depends on what they were DOING....do you know what I mean?
"Love As Thou Wilt"