Originally Posted by faeriesrreal
Yes I let people, especially other women intimidate me. so that IS my fault. but where i am at right now, i am happy with just me my husband and my pets. i don't need anyone else.
I can certainly relate to that. Although I CAN "be in love" with more than one person at the same time, I don't feel the "need" to do so, and my orientation is not limited to one gender or the other. I dislike everyone equally, and I prefer my cats to the company of other humans, if given the choice. I wouldn't say that other people intimidate me though. I would say that I tend to intimidate other people and it's easier to just not have to deal with them than to adjust myself around other people's comfort zones.
I wish I could give you the answers that you are seeking.