Welcome back! I was curious what happened to you three.
So currently you have a possible V relationship. Is that really so un-doable? I don't recall everything from the back story, but I do know that things do change over time. Maybe a V would be possible? And if not, that's ok too. You three had a great learning experience and probably a great time getting to really know each other and yourselves.
Gotta bolt for now though. Hope to see all three of you on here again though.
Keep in touch!
ps. just because you feel you are not in an active poly relationship, doesn't mean you don't belong here or have anything to contribute.