Originally Posted by Sunshinegrl
Ab and Al love me and I them... and while they are not in love..they love and respect each other too. Hence..Poly but not.
I fail to see how this is "but not". Just because your relationship didn't fit into the pre-scribed geometry doesn't make it "not poly". I seem to recall people on this forum telling you that you don't HAVE to have a triad, and that it's not "all or nothing", and one of you (it was either you or AL) said "oh yes, yes we do, It IS all-or-nothing for us".
I'm glad you found a way to make it work after all.