Hiya all!! Long time no see!!!!
Soo its been awhile since I have been around..suddenly I felt the urge to stop by and say hi. Hi!!!!
So a little bit of an update on the G.O here... We went through a lot of crap..which involved us taking a bit of a break from our "Poly" relationship. I was a little overwhelmed by things and was struggling with some of my own demons . And a discovery that relationship wise things were not quiet what we thought. So we discovered things were more Of a V then a triad and although there is alot of love and respect things between AB and AL The relationship wasn't as it was between her and I. We had a bit of a break and Al even dated someone else Briefly. But things picked up again and have been better then ever.
So We have mostly stayed away from here...Not because we dont love you guys...But we felt that we didn't really feel like we fit the "box" that "Poly" is.
I'm Just me and I love two people. Ab and Al love me and I them... and while they are not in love..they love and respect each other too. Hence..Poly but not. Things have been ALOT smoother and we have been alot happier since we stopped trying to label and put ourselves in to that box. I have missed the support and friendships that we found here and found that I needed to touch base.
Al still has a few months before Her visa is up and we are exploring a few options to keep her her. While her and I have a great "secondary" relationship..she has yet to find a "primary" relationship. But is looking. Everyone including the kiddos are happy and well.
I will admit I have lurked here somewhat to keep up to date a little..But just not felt the need to post. But I felt today the time had come to let some of our OL friends know what was going on. I may try to drop in from time to time. I see alot of new faces and I myself have grown alot.
AL may stop by..I know we have talked about some Of our friends here from time to time. I hope everyone is well and happy.
I donít get many things right the first time
In fact, I am told that a lot
Now I know all the wrong turns, the stumbles and falls
Brought me here...
And where was I before the day
That I first saw your lovely face?
Now I see it everyday
And I know that I am
I am, I am
~ Ben Folds five ~