Originally Posted by metalkittymeow
So I've been looking to find people to date or at least hang out with, but I just can't get the balls to do it. I've had social anxiety for a long long time now and it really affects my happiness. I've tried joining dating sites, and while they do make "regular" dating easier they don't have very many poly people on there. I guess I like talking to people online first. It helps ease me into a relationship whether it's platonic or w.e.. So what should I do? i want to find someone I can relate to but I can't do any group related activities in the first day... it's too much for my body to handle.
I know this is old, but you've tried OkCupid, right? It has open/poly people on it.
I also have bad social anxiety, which makes dating very difficult and frustrating when my friends/girlfriends have lots of dates and I have zero.