All of my male lovers (I have 4 currently) know one another and like one another. It takes away so much drama to just spend time with them together and let them form their own relationship/friendship. The unknown is always more powerful and can create all kinds of imagery etc. The actual is so much easier to deal with. Each of my lovers realizes that my other lovers are just regular human beings after all.
The key to life is in being fully engaged and peacefully detached simultaneously and authentically in each moment.