Originally Posted by dazedandconfused
I don't know if I am interested in this lifestyle. I have never been with a woman nor do I know if I would like to be. I think some of this has to do with the fact that I do not have any really really close friends that are women.
Polyamory is not synonymous with bisexuality.
You, yourself, do not have to have sex with or "be with" another woman.
I'm sensing that there is some expectation of threesomes and/or mutual girlfriend(s). You didn't say so but the way your sentence comes across, it's as though you take it as a given that you are "supposed to" be involved with other women in order to "be polyamorous".
Nothing could be further from the reality.
Do not let anyone pressure you into doing something you do not want to do.