ummmm...in reference to what? Like what you allow your partner to do with others?...or are you getting into the kinky side of thing to?
I think you will find most checklists are too generic. If you take even basic acts
Each of those is different for each couple/person. Dating for my wife and I is something we have always done. We hang out and go out with people individually all the time. Kissing is something we don't have a problem doing with others. But lots of people have that as off limits.
You may have to conjure one up for yourself.