I don't know if Hubby doesn't think things through and just blurts things out because he actually does have Asperger's, as we've suspected, or because he's just a jackass.
He informed me that he doesn't say "I love you" because he means it. He says it because it seems important to me to hear it, but he's just "phoning it in" when he says it.
Apparently he's decided to see how much he can hurt me before I say fuck the fact that my kid wants to finish at her current high school, I'm out of here.
Me: 45, cis-het female, poly
Hubby: my husband, 42, monogamous
S2: male, 45, undetermined
My daughters: Alt (age 20) and Country (age 16)
S2's sons: Spikes (age 9) and Beads (age 6)
Guy: ex-boyfriend, now confidant