I don't know if Hubby doesn't think things through and just blurts things out because he actually does have Asperger's, as we've suspected, or because he's just a jackass.
He informed me that he doesn't say "I love you" because he means it. He says it because it seems important to me to hear it, but he's just "phoning it in" when he says it.
Apparently he's decided to see how much he can hurt me before I say fuck the fact that my kid wants to finish at her current high school, I'm out of here.
Me: 45, female, poly
Hubby: my husband, male, 43, monogamous
My offspring: Alt, 20, agender; Country, 17, female
Woody: 50, male, boyfriend/Dom
Bouncer: 48, male, FWB
Best Friend, Techie, Flip, Guy: all male, my close friends
Hair: 20, male, Woody's son
Doll and Mouse: female, ages unknown, my friends, Woody & Hair's housemates
Highlight and Lips: 32 & 33, female & male, Woody's OSO & her husband