Originally Posted by Quath
I gave my wife the "Ethical Slut" also. However, what she mostly took from it was that poly people are in it mostly for the sex. .
I tried to read it (meaning I couldn't) and had the same reaction. Redpepper's husband gave me this one "Polyamory: The New Love Without Limits : Secrets of Sustainable Intimate Relationships" by Deborah M. Anapol. It was a good book that presented polyamory in a much more meaningful light.
Communication is of course always better though.