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Old 04-19-2010, 08:12 PM
Ariakas Ariakas is offline
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Originally Posted by redpepper View Post
My experience has taught me to check with who I am with what their take is on connection and sex. Not that they have to be the same as me but so we are all aware.
I really wish I had read something like this before I got involved with our first emotional threesome. Very wise ...

I feel like I am in dangerous waters
Communicate this and other concerns with partners involved. And not just your husband. This is a 4 person party, everyone involved needs to be involved. Speed is very relative to the person, I tend to jump in with both feet and then swim like a madman, while my wife is more cautious.

If you can communicate these differences, it might help mitigate the dangerous waters feeling
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