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Old 04-19-2010, 06:12 PM
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My husband and I started on our journey looking for a mutual girlfriend. As it turns out we're not attracted to the same type of woman. Poly isn't so much about having a specific relationship dynamic as it is about finding what works for you.

I agree that you should spend some time alone with this woman and get to know her. Let your own relationship with her develop into what it's going to be. Forcing relationships rarely works.

-Derby
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