Well, it isn't as healthy as any of us would like it to be. There have been several discussions as to what poly means individually and as pairs. We are taking a step back to each bring to the table what we see as being poly so that we can better define safe boundaries and understandings moving forward. While none of us want to be overly pigeon-holed, I think having a foundation to start from will only help to restructure and strengthen what has been and what could be.
I look forward to exploring and talking more to everyone here.