Honestly the way I explain it is that I honestly can't compare Hubby with Boyfriend it is truly apples and oranges as far as I'm concerned. There totally different people. And I'm quite happy with that and love them both. The sexual side is even more impossible to compare with the two of them! They are nothing alike in that regard. And I love that! Nether one is "better". They are both amazing, just in there own ways.
I am very lucky that both of my guys are fine with that. And IMO I think it helps that they know I am NOT comparing them to each other.