Absolutely -- rejoice in the half of the glass that is full.
Re (from YouAreHere
"He likes it, I should do it. It'd make me a better partner to do everything he likes, right? Well ... no, not really. It makes me less 'me' and more 'her' and what he really wants out of a relationship with me is ... me."
Love means never having to say, "Put down that meat cleaver!"