This is us
Hello. I never thought in a million years I would be writing a post like this. Let me start at the beginning.
I've been married to my amazing husband for 25 years and we've been together for 27. We are an interracial couple. We have 2 children. I had our 1st at 36 an our second at 40. Oy!
3 years ago the real me started coming out. I always knew I was a submissive, but I stuffed it down. My husband is naturally dominate, but we never formally established ourselves as D/s. I also refused to let my fantasies and kinky side be known and so did he. Too much to say right now, but we were afraid to admit what we really desired because we were afraid the other would leave. We both suffered in silence for far too long.
Today we have a beautiful dynamic and are exploring our sexuality in way that we only ever dreamed about. That's why we're here. We have D/s friends that have done something that to me feels like they hit the lottery. One couple is in a well-established D/s relationship and are not married. The other couple is married, but their D/s is new. Both women are bi and both men are straight. They all met through blogging. The four of them have entered into a relationship whereby they are great friends and get together not for swapping, but as they say a "tangled mass of bodies." It struck such a chord with us because this is what we want. We want another couple that we can have as good friends with great chemistry and attraction and be able to get together with every now and then to share our D/s and be sexually intimate with. I guess this is a type of polyamory relationship. We don't want to swap, we want to be right next to each other to keep our connection while at the same time connecting with another couple, thereby making our relationship closer.
So that's who we are. The longer established D/s couple we know we're becoming better and better friends with and you can tell there is attraction between us, but we never want to come between them and the other couple. It is amazing to read of their experiences as it is like a guide to what we want. We seem to be on the same page in desires. Just wish I knew where to look to find a couple like that for us.
Just call me Elle.