I'm so glad we opted for just being out to our kids. I can't imagine having such a conversation. It's so much easier to say "get your hugs and kisses so daddy and I can go to bed" or if he's not here "get your hugs and kisses so GG and I can go to bed" and/or waking up in the mornings and having them relaxed and comfortable to call out to me at hte bottom of hte stairs-"mom which room are you in?" and be able to answer and not feel concerned about "OMG what will they think!"
Because they all know mommy loves Daddy AND GG and sleeps with both-so what?