Originally Posted by jaksmakndaxter
I suggested that since I will have the biggest issue with another person within our circle that I find a female partner 1st;reason being,if I can sleep with another woman and not have a problem with it,then I'd be far less likely to have an issue with her and a seperate partner. I really want this to work out,and I have enough of an open mind to do this with her
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First let me say that you have a great attitude and obvious love for your partner. Second...is there no worry that you might not have the same capacity to maintain a connection with more than one person and therefore she could lose you?