I haven't posted much lately.
The last few months for me have been stressful and changing. After many years of marriage, my wife and I decided to seperate. It's entirely peaceful, amicable and mutual. It didn't come crashing home, we realized as we decided to get individual bank accounts that we've been pulling away from each other for a while. We both realized it was time to stop pretending and honor our relationship for what it was and was not.
So even though I feel well towards her - she will always be my friend and ally - the shift is unusual for me. I'm "single" again...
There was some drama in my household due to tenant/landlord/roommate-ish issues during this time, and so I've been looking for a new place to stay. Finding a poly-friendly roommate or landlord is difficult but I've done it, I think.
I'm also newly involved with a M-F couple and it's got a very odd dynamic, odd in the sense that I'm not used to it. It's also fun.