Originally Posted by graviton
I think its more than natural that a new lover is going to cause most peoples eyes to glaze over when they see their more established spouse/lover who they've had sex with hundreds of times . . . Just communicate your feeling of jealousy and being ignored to him.
Or forget about threesomes and let the sex take place one-on-one among the dyads. Then no one has to worry about making sure every sex act is doled out evenly and you just enjoy your time with the other person privately. Why do so many people think polyamory = threesomes?