How was poly so great to begin with?
When a relationship is not working, playing around with being poly does not fix it. I am poly because that is how my brain works, not because I want to sleep around. If you are wanting sex, then have sex... if you want relationships of any type, .. go do it... be honest... be trust worthy... be who you really are.
I am still polyamorus even if I am celibate.
I think those who are- love and affection monogamous, are still, even when they have plural sex partners.