Originally Posted by kamala
Just sit down and ask yourself, and try to be as honest as you possibly can: can I see myself doing this for an extended period of time? Am I happy? Do I really want this?
My words exactly. Don't go by this forum as far as "everybody" is doing this either...this is a poly forum. If this was a Nascar Forum we would "all be doing it" too.
Look around your real world before you decide what everyone is doing.