At least they know I exist now, what I am going through, and it's not just this mad rush to a consummated love affair between Ginger and Carla, as if David and I don't exist! We aren't single people, we are poly people, and our actions with others impact our existing relationships!
Yup! Poly isn't saying "no" -- just "Go slow. Be easy with my heart here. I'm in here too!"
And the more people in the network, the slower you go (to me) to prevent motion sickness.
Glad things are improving bit by bit for you!