Originally Posted by noob
And I would be very upset if my husband told me I couldn't see someone I wanted to see--regardless of whether I planned on, or wanted, to have sex with that person. For one thing, it's controlling.
I never suggested she tell her husband no either. And I agree with you...you don't have to have sex in the back of your mind in order to meet with your ex. But by the same token - I could never picture myself so eager to meet up with an ex that I would shove the idea down my wife's throat. If she's cool with it, alright, if I see she was uncomfortable. Then that's alright too. It's not that serious.