Why should I stay?
Everything you've said is basically correct. I did want a "pet" for my man. I got excited and carried away so ended up agreeing to a poly relationship. However, why should I stay in it and suck it up, I know I want me and my man only. I don't have any feeling for her anymore though she's a cool person. It cannot work but I don't want him to resent me now that I'm taking away his "toy". Ugggh...