nycindie, you have just guaranteed that I'll leave the forum. I have no reason to stick around and you just gave me a reason to leave. I choose not to be around people who act like you-- internet strangers who, protected by your anonymity, go by another name-- trolls. But you can feel good about yourself and convince yourself that YOU are a saint and haven't done any wrong here, because the rest of us are just too thin-skinned to take it. Or you can choose to grow from the experience and maybe next time, be more thoughtful.
Go in peace, friend.