I agree that other peoples attatudes is a downside. I try not to care what people think but there are times when someone has said something really hurtful,
iv been called a whore lots since coming out, and greedy and iv had people not respect my relationships and see them as casual when infact we are very commited to each other,
if you are open and out you get the downside of nasty attatudes
if you keep it to yourself then you have to live a secret life
that is def a downside.
so so far on the list i have
Other peoples issues
and extra issues in relationships because there are more people with more issues