Originally Posted by heartdoodler
His family wants absolutely nothing to do with me. We have fallen in love despite all of those odds...
1. His family is xenophobic and he capitulates to their irrational fears.
2. You are not turned off by the fact that he allows his parents to dictate his life for him.
What you have described is really just another example demonstrating that there is some emotional growth that needs to take place before this association will even risk being a healthy relationship.
I wish you luck, I really do.