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Old 04-27-2014, 07:35 AM
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Originally Posted by Magdlyn View Post
Even though he didnt see those 2 women more than a handful of times, he was IMing, Skpying and all that, daily.
Well, if he's doing that in front of you, then you have a right to ask that he put his phone down and give you his full attention. But somewhere you said you didn't realize he was still in touch with one of them (Mischa, I think) until he revealed that they were going to get together again, so I'm confused - does he blatantly do it when he's with you? And does the amount of texting and Skyping he does with anyone else get in the way of his communicating with you? Or is it just the knowledge (or assumption?) that he's in daily contact with several women that bothers you? He seems to like developing an online rapport with people before meeting, or without even needing to meet.
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