Originally Posted by idealist
My perspective is to "just do it" and stop trying to anticipate every possible thing that could happen. I know I have been guilty of spending more time analyzing my relationship(s) than I do atually being in them. Get him down here and start an actual relationship is what I suggest.
That my dear is exactly what we plan on doing x) It was brought up by him yesterday (the fear)and we were going through the motions of talking it through and we let it swallow us up I think. PS. Where were you yesterday when we needed you! Hehe In all seriousness though I think our biggest problem is having too much time to think and don't have the means to do. So hopefully he gets a job soon.