Originally Posted by Magdlyn
I think my bf is polysaturated, but he doesn't seem aware he is.....It gets tiresome for me, having to make space for each of his new crushes every month or two! We've had to have several long talks about it lately.
I struggle with this. I feel resentful and abandoned when someone close to me starts spending less time and energy with me because they met someone newer and shinier. I feel that if you can't find room without cutting into our quality time, you shouldn't be taking on another lover.
Female, bi-amorous, mid 40's
on the spectrum between poly-amorous and monogam-ish
girlfriend Melinda, lesbian, early 30's