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Old 04-14-2010, 10:39 PM
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LR- the *base* need isn't Mono, its someone to trust and love who trusts and loves me in return. I need several people to call family and love and trust. Hmm... That might be a conflict in my theory of all of us having the same needs ... All that can include intimacy on top of it all.

The *base* need is to have light after dark and warmth, not electricity. There is a difference there too.

Back to the boyfriend. What are his *base* needs? If they are to include another love in his life to trust and love then I would wonder if he is poly. If it is to fill a gap because he is lonely and wants some female entertainment then no wonder ilovetwomen is concerned. That could be damaging in so many ways. Then again, maybe not. ? I dunno... :P
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