One of the key parts of growing and maturing is learning to take responsibility for only OUR issues, not other people's.
I had that issue the other day in fact and Ariakas called me on it.
I suggest to each of you-check out the "general" board.
There are a LOT of threads over there that will help you with your search for information and understanding.
KT-respect is something that is due to everyone. Seriously-if we ALL treated others with respect and consideration-the whole world would be a better place!
Unfortunately the large majority of people have no clue how to put that concept into practice.