Originally Posted by KC43
It really stinks that you had such a horrible experience with your ex. You have no clue who I am, but I hope you don't mind me sending you positive thoughts for healing as you go through your divorce and build your new life. (I've been there...)
I don't think it's been resolved, more just put on the back burner. I want to stick with her because I have five years of trust built up. This last session I had, I talked about two people I am seeing and she said it sounds like they are normal men and it would be good for me to see what normal and positive relationships can be like. There was no "why don't you pick one" or anything like that. So...perhaps there is hope. In the meantime, during my divorce especially, I feel the rapport I've built up with her is important.
Thank you for your kind words. It's never easy, but it gets a little better each day.