It is disrespectful to contact people who have specified their preferences and you do not meet those preferences.
Then you have the nerve to be affronted when they do not reply to you?
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.