Originally Posted by london
As I've said all along, your obvious hatred and jealousy towards his wife when you cannot give him what she gives him was always going to be an issue. Maybe it's best to part so he can be in the marriage he wants to be in without you berating and belittling him, her and their entire relationship.
You guys probably have/had something good but I know I couldn't stand for the way you've behaved in regards to this and just the general sense of entitlement you think you have over the nature of other people's relationships. It's just way too intense.
I do not berate or belittle him. I may have lashed out in anger a few times, but that is entirely human. I realize you don't see us as "primaries" so I do not think we are going to have any of the same view points here.