Originally Posted by vandalin
We finally had a discussion a couple days ago and got most things straightened out including some agreements/boundaries such as "if you say 'I love you' it has to include 'my friend'" and "no open ending statements like 'I just can't be in that kind of relationship right now'"
This is a great and healthy idea! Vagueness in communication can sometimes be as detrimental as not communicating at all. I personally think clarity is paramount, especially in polyamorous friendships/relationships.