I had a simply lovely day with Kip.
I felt we needed a little more time to reconnect and hang out and we had it today.
He was genuinely thrilled with his birthday gift and loved the mousse too. He picked me up, we had great sex, tea and mousse, more sex, lunch and he took me back for my car.
I told him over lunch that I missed him being on IM and being available for advice. He said he knew there was less chat but again said it was due to his minion being around, and that he missed it too, but to ping or email and he will get back to me.
I did get some good advice on the divorce and job situation. He is a smart man and I value his input. I was pretty much prepared to sign over a lot to the ex yesterday just to get done with him. Kip said run it past a lawyer first. One hour for a consult should give me all the answers. Dad said the same, friend said sign while ex is being cooperative. I needed a swing vote
I have a call in to the lawyer for an appointment.