My husband is polysexual while I am polyamourous. He has those moods as we when I return from a day with my lover. I don't share with him what we do but I enjoy more dominance from my lover thAn from my husband because of the difference in the relationship so I understand enjoying something with one and not the other.
My husband however apparently likes to be dominated.... so while sporting his rope marks he still seems to have the Gaul to act frustrated that I've been intimate elsewhere. Some of thAt if just growing I think. And pErsonality maybe.