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Old 04-14-2010, 04:14 AM
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Ithought, if I'm fucking another woman than it won't be a big deal that she is fucking other guys. I saw it as a way to take the sting out of the idea that she had other lovers and would have more. ...................................We would never have come this far if I had of tried that as a coping method...and still those thoughts can creep back into my mind from time to time during times of doubt.

There are times, especially when questioned by my friends, that I feel a certain embarrassment at being exclusive with Redpepper.

That is because it's a COPING mechanism, not a sane, rational, reasonably thought out choice. It might fix the emotion IN THE MOMENT-but it isn't a GOOD FIX for YOU, only the emotion-which isn't YOU.

And you my friend are NOT an idiot. I daresay you are one of the sanest and most intelligent people I've encountered. If someone tells you otherwise-just tell them, yeah well LR says you are full of shit!
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