What Marcus said...
If it was me I would not get involved with this potential nightmare. How can you develop a relationship with the sword of damocles hanging over your head.
40 yo straight female
Married in the eyes of the government to Butch since 2001...
Murf my monogamous second husband has been with me since May of 2012.
In a V relationship with an average 60/40 split of time. Only due to Murf's and Butch's crappy work schedules.