Originally Posted by Devirajni
That was my original point - sorry if the sarcasm didn't come through well on the web.
Well, sarcasm is usually lost on me anyway
I feel the same as you that it is reasonable to expect to be shared the kind of information that would affect you or your plans.
I find the idea of having
to lie to someone confusing. Why would anyone have to lie? The way I see is people choose
to lie. No one is forcing them to.
I like how you can see the positive in the negative. That the motive for lying actually makes you feel more secure in your relationship