I am the hinge in a vee between two guys - my husband and my boyfriend. They are friendly toward each other but have no sexual contact or romantic relationship. They are both straight. Sometimes they will go grocery shopping together, or work together to do a repair around the house. We will all sit on the couch and watch Cosmos, or go to dinner or lunch as a 3. Both of them are comfortable with me showing affection to the other. With my previous boyfriend, this was not the case - he specifically asked that he not witness any kisses between my husband and I.
Is your boyfriend wanting to date the two of you? If she is his ex, it must be for a reason. Unless those issues were resolved, there will be problems. Is she poly?
Hinge in a poly-fi vee with two mono men
Wife to DarkKnight, Engaged to PunkRockAwesomesauce
Thinking of dating again
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