I'm VERY curious to see maca's reply to this. He's not online right now-but I'm VERY VERY curious.
He doesn't have a girlfriend.
He did talk a LOT at the beginning about it and my impression was that it was a "if you have one then I should too" attitude, with no consideration to actually WANTING another lover or consideration of LOVING another woman.
BUT-then he decided he didn't want one "right now" and I don't know exactly where he is now...
SO I'm curious what HE would say.
For me-I think that we all have to learn in our own way-and it sounds like he has a lot of deep soul searching to do.
BUT if it's only about "you have one so I want one" there is likely to be a new Third on the board pissed off and angry about her feelings being less than important................