And that also doesn't mean that they can't want to start with casual sex and see if it develops into the one. I think a lot of guys are like that. They'd like to find a cute, fun girl that they can have a fwb situation with and if it changes, so be it.
Me - male, 42, poly, straight, in a serious relationship with Audrey, also casually dating.
Audrey - female, 20, poly, pansexual, also casually dating.