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Old 04-06-2014, 11:44 PM
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Originally Posted by nycindie View Post
It sounds to me like everyone in Jane's tangle is pretty much on the same page and has the agency to choose how "out" they are:
In fairness, if ONE person wishes to remain closeted, that makes it very difficult for the others to be open, without it compromising the closeted partner. If I chose to be open about who I was with, that would invariably "out" my other partners (it's a small world, there's always the chance of it coming round to people they know, even if I only tell "my" people). They can't afford to be open, so I pretend to be single to most of the world.
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