Originally Posted by Snic85
. . . I was having a really bad day so he canceled his date with her willingly to stay with me, but he used our daughter as the excuse. By not telling her that he canceled to stay home and support me on a difficult day, I feel like he disrespected not only me but our marriage as well.
What he says to his girlfriend and how he manages his relationship with her is his business, not yours, so why would you think what he tells her has to meet with your approval? He's the one in a relationship with her. His communications to her have nothing to do with your marriage. Why would you even know what he told her? You manage your relationships, let him manage his.