Thread: A compromise?
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Old 04-05-2014, 03:02 AM
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You may want to read AnotherConfused's story. She is married and her husband is not poly yet has agreed that she can have a bf, as long as she adheres to very specific physical boundaries. She and her bf never have intercourse, and I believe no penetration of any kind.

Well, anyway, her journey is full of insights as she questioned so many things.

Here are two of her threads:
What if polyamory stops working?

Learning to be me
The world opens up... when you do.

"Oh, oh, can't you see? Love is the drug for me." ~Bryan Ferry
"Love and the self are one . . ." ~Leo Buscaglia

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Click here to find out why the Polyamorous Misanthrope is feeling disgusted.
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